Tuesday, October 20, 2026

"Has Your Atmarama Calmed Down?"

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My grandmother never asked, "Have you eaten?" Instead, she would ask in Telugu:

"ఆత్మారాముడు శాంతించాడా?"
(Ātmārāmuḍu śāṁtiñcāḍā?)

Literally, it means, "Has your inner Rama calmed down?"

When I was little, I thought it was a strange question. Was she asking about God? Why would Rama be upset? It took me a while to understand that the "Atmarama" was the restless voice inside me, the one that grumbles when the stomach is empty and goes quiet only when it is fed.

So she wasn't asking about God at all. She was asking, in her own gentle way, whether I had eaten.

I love that she never made it sound like an order or a worry. A plain "Did you eat?" would have been enough, but she gave hunger a name and treated it with respect. A hungry stomach was something to be soothed, not ignored.

These days, when someone asks me if I've eaten, I think of her and smile. Nobody says it quite like she did.


Ātmārāmuḍu means "one who delights in the self." In everyday Telugu, it became a playful, respectful way to refer to the hunger inside us.

- co-written with Claude

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Paddavadu eppudu cheddavadu kaadu

పడ్డవాడు ఎప్పుడూ చెడ్డవాడు కాదు

English Translation - "One who falls is not necessarily a bad person."

Meaning

This proverb is an encouraging reminder about the difference between a temporary setback and a permanent character flaw:

Paddavadu (One who falls): This refers to someone who has faced a failure, made a mistake, or suffered a loss in life.

Cheddavadu (Bad person): This refers to someone of poor character or someone who has truly "failed" at being a good person.

The Core Lesson

The saying teaches that failure is an event, not an identity. Falling is a natural part of any journey—whether in career, personal growth, or learning a new skill. The proverb suggests that as long as a person has the character to learn from the fall and the strength to get back up, the "fall" itself does not make them a failure or a "bad" individual.

It is often used to comfort someone who is feeling discouraged after a mistake, reminding them that their worth remains intact despite their current struggle.

Monday, March 23, 2026

Samsaram guttoo, rogam rocchu

సంసారం గుట్టు, రోగం రొచ్చు

Samsaram guttoo: One's family matters or domestic life should be kept private or a "secret" (guttoo).

Rogam rocchu: A disease or ailment (rogam) should be made public or "brought to light" (rocchu).

The Meaning

The wisdom here is about knowing what to hide and what to share:

Privacy in the Home: Personal family conflicts, financial struggles, or private disagreements should stay within the family. Airing them publicly usually leads to unnecessary gossip or loss of dignity without solving the root problem.

Transparency in Health: Conversely, if you are sick, you shouldn't hide it. Keeping a disease secret prevents you from getting the help, treatment, or sympathy you need. By making it "loud" (letting people know), you find a cure.

The Bottom Line: Keep your private life private, but don't suffer in silence when it comes to your well-being.

Sunday, February 8, 2026

Telugu-English Dictionary (1900)

P. Sankaranarayana's glowing admiration for English in the Introduction of Telugu-English Dictionary (1900) -

"...the English language is, in general, exceedingly shorter than Telugu and other Indian languages. On still closer examination the interesting truth comes to light that its vocabulary as a whole is admirably short and economic. In fact, it seems to be at very near the minimum cost of utterance that English achieves the object of all language-expressing thoughts and feelings

...we find an extraordinary and astonishing brevity and simplicity in the English language. A very large percentage of its words, more especially its commonest and most useful words, are monosyllabic and dissyllabic

...the English vocabulary seems to be to that of our languages what shorthand is to longhand in writing

An eloquent speaker in English can pour forth in the ears and hearts of his spell-bound audience a volume of no less than perhaps three, four or five thousand words in an hour with their underlying ideas, notions, and thoughts, while his brother speaker in the adjacent hall cannot be blamed for not plodding through more than say a third of the number in his Vernacular in the same space of time. Or, if the work done be the same, if a speaker takes one hour to deliver a speech in English, other things equal, he must take to do the same in one of our vernaculars, say some three hours. The whole business of one session of the British Parliament or any of our law courts, so far as it relates to and depends upon speaking and language, would have been delightfully done in some three sessions.

The proportion between the labors, times, hands, wires, cables required to wire the same quantity of messages in the two languages would show that our long-winded languages would stamp out and destroy perhaps more than half of the business and work of the world that rests upon telegraphic communication...

...the value of short words must assert itself and become emphasized when they are put to use in innumerable ways for military and naval purposes by a nation and a tongue that are ruling well-nigh half the world.

I should be grossly mistaken if it does not deserve to rank as a most valuable and important truth brought to light, that in English we talk more and express and exchange a greater quantity of thoughts in a given time than in our Vernaculars, a truth competent, who can deny, to determine the fates or destinies of languages, and of great moment to us in this country, and to the position and prospects of the English language in this land, and, with it, to the material good and prosperity of its people."

Wednesday, April 24, 2024

Telugu Names

Traditional Telugu names follow a unique naming system that differs significantly from conventions used in other parts of India and the world. The format typically consists of "family name (surname), given name (first name)." In some cases, a caste name may be suffixed at the end.

For instance, in the name Devula Rama Naidu, Devula is the family name, Rama is the given name, and Naidu represents the caste.

When the given name comprises multiple words, such as Venkata Satyanarayana Naidu, the last word preceding the caste suffix (Satyanarayana, in this case) is commonly used by others when addressing the individual.

Satya Nadella, the CEO of Microsoft, has a connection to Nadella village in Guntur district through his family's roots. 

In rural Andhra/Telangana, surnames often derive from everyday objects, qualities, or professions. Telugu family names occasionally derive from a place or occupation too. For example, Kandukuri originates from Kandukuru, a town in Andhra Pradesh's SPSR Nellore district. Other surnames may indicate a family's traditional profession, like Vungrala (ring maker) or Gurram (horse trader).

The practice of placing the family name first is also observed in other cultures, such as Korean, Japanese, Chinese, and Hungarian.

Saturday, December 9, 2023

The Telugu Primer for the Use of Those who Wish to Study the Telugu Language (1851)

The Telugu Primer

The Telugu Primer for the Use of Those who Wish to Study the Telugu Language (PDF) by Adacki Sooba Row, Late Moonshee in the Telugu translator's Office is a 260 paged book published in 1851 whose objective is "to remove the obstacles which impede the first steps in the acquirement of this beautiful and elegant Language by furnishing the  student with a progressive series of easy and familiar lessons".

Excerpts with Telugu words transliterated to English:

The Hindu months

  1. చైత్రము / Chaitramu   - April-May
  2. వైశాఖము / Vaishākhamu  -  May-June
  3. జ్యేష్ఠము / Jyēṣṭhamu  - June- July
  4. ఆషాఢము / Āṣāḍhamu  - July-August.
  5. శ్రావణము / Śrāvaṇamu  - August-September
  6. భాద్రపదము / Bhādrapadamu  - September-October
  7. ఆశ్వియుజము / Āśwayujamu  - October-November
  8. కాతికము / Kārtikamu - November-December
  9. మార్గశిరము / Mārgaśiramu - December-January
  10. పుష్యము / Puṣyamu - January-February
  11. మాఘము / Māghamu - February-March 
  12. పాల్గుణము / Pālguṇamu - March-April

A month నెల / Nela is divided into two పక్షములు / Pakṣamulu viz . శుక్ల శుద్ధపకుము / Śukla Śuddha Pakṣamu the bright half  of a month. బహుళ / Bahuḷa or కృష్ణ పక్షము / Kṛṣhṇa Pakṣamu the dark half of a month.

The following are the days of the month distinguished by the prefix శుద్ధ or బహుళ :

  1. పాడ్యమి  /  Pādyami - 1st 
  2. విదియ  / Vidiya  - 2d
  3. తదియ /  Tadiya  - 3d
  4. చవుతి /  Chavuti  - 4th
  5. పంచమి /  Panchami  - 5th 
  6. షషి / Shasti  - 6th 
  7. సప్తమి /  Saptami  - 7th
  8. అష్టమి /  Ashtami  - 8th 
  9. నవమి /  Navami  - 9th 
  10. దశమి /  Daśami  - 10th 
  11. ఏకాదశి /  Ekādaśi  - 11th 
  12. ద్వాదశి /  Dvādaśi  - 12th 
  13. త్రయోదశి /  Trayodaśi  - 13th 
  14. చతుర్దశి /  Chaturdashi  - 14th

అమావాస్య / Amāvāsyā - The last day of the dark half of the month

పున్నమ /  Punnama  - Full moon or the last day of the light half of the month 

Sunday, June 19, 2022

SAMETALU (Proverbs in Telugu)

I came across a PDF copy of the book SAMETALU (Proverbs in Telugu) published by C P Brown Academy, The Alpha Foundation, Hyderabad in 2008.

It has the English transliteration and translation of 115 Telugu proverbs beautifully compiled by Dr. VVB Rama Rao

While trying to see if they have any other publications, I found that the publisher's website doesn't exist and  Google didn't offer any useful results when I searched for the publisher and The Alpha Foundation. 

This is sad as these type of books aimed at those trying to learn and appreciate Telugu through English are few and an organization that publishes such books should flourish and thrive.

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